If my child was conceived due to sexual assault, can the abuser get custody or visitation?
In most cases, an abuser cannot be granted custody or visitation if both of the following are true:
- The abuser was found guilty (criminally convicted) of rape or sexual assault in any state; and
- You became pregnant (conceived) as a result of that rape or sexual assault.1
The abuser can only be granted custody or visitation if both of the following things happen after the abuser’s conviction:
- You and the abuser live together and create an environment where you both care for and parent your child; and
- You ask a judge to grant the abuser custody or visitation, and the judge finds that it would be in the child’s best interest.2
Note: The judge can still order the abuser to pay child support, even if custody and visitation are denied.3
1 Haw. Rev. Stat. § 571-46(a)(17)
2 Haw. Rev. Stat. § 571-46(a)(17)(C), (a)(17)(D)
3 Haw. Rev. Stat. § 571-46(a)(17)(A), (a)(17)(B)




