Who is a “de facto custodian”?
You may be a de facto custodian if you:
- are related by blood to the child within three degrees. For example, you are their aunt, uncle, sibling, cousin, or great-grandparent; and
- were the main person caring for and financially supporting the child while living with them, during a time when a parent was absent and not participating regularly in their lives.1
To be considered the de facto custodian, you would have to have cared for the child under these circumstances for at least:
- six months if the child is under three years of age; or
- one year or longer if the child is three or older.1
The judge will also look at whether the children still live with you or how long it’s been since they did.2
Note: If you are the child’s stepparent or their parent’s live-in partner, you cannot be a de facto custodian.3
If you think you might be a de facto custodian, see How will the judge decide if a de facto custodian should have custody?
1 I.C. § 32-1703(1)(a)-(b)
2 I.C. § 32-1703(2)
3 I.C. § 32-1703(4)(b)




