Choosing and Working with a Lawyer

If you are having problems with your lawyer or feel that they are not handling your case well, it may be a good idea to speak with them directly. Explain your concerns clearly, let them know what you need and expect, and allow them to correct their actions.

If things do not improve or you are still unhappy with how your case is being handled, there are other steps you can take:

• Keep detailed notes about the problems you are having with the attorney - for example, if they are not returning your phone messages, keep a list of when you called and what message you left.
• Put your concerns in writing by sending an email or a letter. This can help to document your concerns and to keep a record of your interaction with your lawyer.
• Ask your lawyer to explain their strategy, as they may have very good reasons for the decisions and can hopefully explain the legal strategy.
• Be clear in explaining why you think the strategy is a problem.
• Consider getting a second opinion. An advocate at a local domestic violence program or another lawyer may also help you think through questions you might want to ask your lawyer to help you better understand their strategy.
• You may fire your attorney and get a new one. However, be aware that depending on the complexity of your case and your case’s status, it may be challenging to get a new lawyer. For some things to keep in mind, see I cannot continue working with my lawyer. What are my options?