Restraining Orders

Here are some things that you may want to consider when you leave the courthouse. You will have to evaluate each one and decide if it is safe and appropriate for you to do.

• Review your order carefully before you leave the courthouse. If you see any errors, ask the clerk how to correct them.
• Make several copies of the protective order as soon as possible.
• Keep a copy of the order with you at all times.
• Leave copies of the order at your workplace, at your home, at your children’s school or daycare, in your car, with a sympathetic neighbor, and so on.
• If you have a security guard or front desk person where you live or work, give them a copy of the order and a photo of the abuser.
• Give a copy of the order to anyone who is named in and protected by the order.
• You may want to consider changing your locks (if permitted by law) and your phone number.
• If you are concerned about your safety when leaving the courthouse, you may want to notify a court officer to see if s/he may walk you to your car.

You may also want to make a safety plan. People can do a number of things to increase their safety during violent incidents, when preparing to leave an abusive relationship, and when they are at home, work, and school. Many abusers obey protective orders, but some do not. So, it’s important to build on the things you have already been doing to keep yourself safe. You can look at our Safety Planning page for suggestions.