Custody

Learn what types of custody (parenting plans) are available in your state and how domestic violence can affect who makes decisions for the child and where the child lives and spends time (residential parenting time). If the other parent, or someone they live with, has a history of domestic violence, you can ask the judge to limit or deny that parent’s time with the child. There are also other possible reasons to restrict the other parent’s time with the child. See When the parent or someone who lives with the parent is abusive. Think about what you will ask for, what would be best for your child, and what would be safest for both of you.  

You can prepare for court by gathering evidence that helps explain why you should have custody. Your evidence should relate to the “best interest factors” that a judge looks at to determine what’s best for your child. See How will a judge determine decision-making authority? and How will a judge make a decision about residential time? for information about these factors in Washington.

Custody cases are complicated, so you may want to get a lawyer. If you can hire someone, you can use this list of questions as your guide when deciding which lawyer to choose. If you can’t hire a lawyer, you may at least want to try getting a free or low-cost consultation to help you make a legal strategy for your case.